Stepping into 2023: Refreshed and Refocused

Though the posts for the blog stylebysyraluna have been silent for the past couple of months, I haven’t forgotten about you, my readers, or the overall purpose of why I started the blog. I needed time to refocus on myself and the many changes that were happening in my life and I couldn’t give the attention that my blog deserved. Now that I’ve been focusing on healing, I’m ready to blog again.

Personally, 2022 was an amazing year and I’m looking forward to 2023. Self-care was my theme for 2022 and it has been so very rewarding. The past year was about self-reflection, healing, and choosing to be at peace. Choosing self-care also means being intentional about my time and who I spend it with. Being intentional is helping me learn from my past mistakes and not to agonize over them. It is also teaching me to be very aware of my feelings, especially after interactions with particular people in my life which resulted in some much-needed “life edits”

Throughout my journey of healing and self-reflection, I’m learning that you can’t heal in the same place that hurt you, so I had to make some moves…physically and emotionally. First, I moved into a fantastic apartment, which has given me the much-needed space, privacy, and order I needed to heal. I didn’t bring old furniture or dishes with me because I wanted a fresh start; furnishing my new apartment has been fun and therapeutic. Changing your space also means changing your mindset and gaining clarity. Second, my divorce was finalized and truth be told I felt relief. My marriage had become a huge stressor in my life and after much prayer, therapy, and counseling, I knew that divorce was the ultimate answer. I walked away from my marriage without doubt and peace of mind. So begins my self-care journey.

Self-care will take many forms: Prayer, journaling, spa days, pampering, or therapy (and yes retail therapy counts, within a budget of course). For me, self-care does include those things but it also requires setting boundaries, learning from my past and being intentional about my time and who I share it with. It has also required me to create an environment filled with beautiful and serene things that brought peace and joy into my life. Most importantly, I’ve learned (and am still learning,) that self-care is about forgiving yourself and others. You cannot move forward while keeping yourself tethered to the past. Love yourself enough to let go and move forward, take that first step into your potential, and open yourself to receiving your many blessings

I want to say thank you for your patience and Happy New Year!

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Be Intentional and Celebrate the Everyday

It is so easy to get wrapped in the routine of everyday life and overlook the beauty that can be found in the day-to-day. These last two years have challenged so many of us to reexamine our daily lives and learn to really appreciate what is important and to be really present in the moments that make up this journey called life.

Turning 40 has changed my perspective on many aspects of life and choosing to be more intentional about my daily life has become a focus. I first wanted to be intentional about my personal space and this meant moving into a luxury apartment and creating my ideal oasis. Before furnishing any other room in my new space, I made sure to create my dream bedroom. Those that know me know that I’m obsessed with pink. I opted for a blush pink duvet set by Pottery Barn Teen (yes it’s teen but everything I wanted) and complemented the room with blush-coloured accent pieces and curtains that created my pink oasis.

I’ve moved a lot in my life and every time it is a reboot in my life and this move was filled with a lot of emotion for many reasons but it has really encouraged me to unplug and enjoy my space with a bubble bath or an amazing view of the sunrise and sunset.

My time in Spain taught me that meals are more than just eating food; they are an experience to celebrate the many events that makeup life. Meals are so rushed in the U.S. that we neglect the beauty that meals bring: time with loved ones and recapping the day, celebrations, or just a break throughout the day. Sandwiches are a snack, meal or an extraordinary experience. I’ve always enjoyed sandwiches, they’re simply easy to make yet delightfully satisfying with simple ingredients like PB and J to a classic Turkey and Cheese, the options are endless. I came across a flavorful sandwich made of chewy ciabatta bread, smoked gouda, smoked turkey breast, sweet honey mustard, and crisp sliced apples combined to make an amazing food experience. I found myself reveling in the exquisite taste of this one sandwich that has become a staple on my menu. This is more than building an incredible sandwich; it was about savoring an experience, combing different ingredients, and sharing that with my family, (who also love it, including a vegetarian.) Not only have I elevated the ingredients for the most amazing sandwich I have ever assembled. I’ve even elevated the dishes to the Aspen Collection from Crate and Barrel, to serve all of my meals on and create a daily culinary experience of excellence.

Being intentional will elevate your daily experiences but it will also encourage you to be patient and appreciate the process of becoming a greater version of yourself. Now go and celebrate the “every day.”

Hello 2022

2021 is coming to a close and I know that I have M.I.A but with good reason. This year has brought so many challenges for many but it has also brought many blessings. As promised, I want to share with you why I’ve been M.I.A.

Around this time last year, I learned that mom has a brother via AncenstoryDNA who looks like he could be her twin. We have a new uncle! it has been exciting getting to know the latest addition to our family. In June, we finally decide to meet in person, choosing North Carolina as our meeting spot because it was the halfway point between Maryland and Florida. It was a powerful, emotional, and insightful reunion that is blossoming into a beautiful relationship.

2021 was also a time for personal reflection and growth. I moved which helped change my perspective on many issues in my personal and professional life. Moving and decorating have allowed me to express my style in home decor. I love expressing my personal style fashionably but being able to express your style throughout your home is happiness and creativity on another level. One of the most important things that I’ve learned this year is that your environment has a direct correlation to your personal growth and healing. Of course, there are many books, blogs, and videos dedicated to this topic but to experience that peace is incredible.

As we approach 2022, I personally want to approach the year with intent. I want to be intentional about my time, the people I choose to surround myself with, and what I spend my time on. So in 2022 be happy and be intentional.

Modern Lusso: The Pop-Up Shop

Every month, I like to provide you content that is important to me. However, these past few months, life has been filled with so many changes that have interrupted my writing. Eventually, I will share with you what I’ve been up to, in the meantime, I want to give you an update on Modern Lusso.

Modern Lusso has brought the brand from online to pop-up shop. It is in collaboration with Concept 31 which houses many up-and-coming brands. Modern Lusso made its debut as a European brand with an emphasis on Greek designers and culture. Niko, the creator and designer of Modern Lusso has decided to streamline the brand, changing its focus from a curated brand of various Greek designers to the in-house brand that is Modern Lusso. The luxury brand will continue to celebrate Greek life and culture but will shift its focus on the brands core items such as Petra-washed tees, joggers, candles, olive oil and semi-precious stone bracelets. Check out the newly designed website and current pop-up shop in Georgetown on M street.

40 and fabulous

As I counted down the days to my 40th birthday, I naturally found myself reflecting on the past years of my life and I quickly decided that I was going to embrace this next decade with the things I love most, my baby sister and photographer Michelle, fashion, glitter, pink, chocolate, and elegance.

I opted for a 40 and Fabulous photo shoot to celebrate such a milestone birthday. I rented a room at the Omni Hotel in DC where I gave myself the gift of luxury. I planned my outfits for many months selecting pieces that I felt forty represents: fabulous, fun, flirty sexy, and spontaneous.

I had an incredible time celebrating me. My day was filled with luxury, dramatic garments, great food, and best of all I was able to capture it all with my bestie. Yes is great to feel special on your birthday but every day is a special occasion, so dress accordingly.

Modern Lusso: The Pop-up Event

When it comes to fashion, I adore the uniqueness of boutique brands; they have a way of capturing and promoting quality and culture within a label. Niko Kokkinos, creator of Modern Lusso frequently visits Greece, collaborating with local Greek designers bringing their hand-crafted creations to the US market with the e-commerce boutique.Niko is back from Mykonos bringing with him several inspired pieces reflecting the culture of Greece, from the azure blue of the waters to the meandros or Greek key design stamped on the sites attributed to Greek mythology, love, and moral virtues. A taste of Greece was showcased in a private outdoor event, presenting the latest collection and a preview of what’s to come from future pop-up shops.

The event held at his residence had a couple of tables set with Greecian wares. The slowly setting sun glints off the hand-crafted jewelry while the Mediterranean scents of the candles danced through the evening. Clients perused stone-washed tees, hand-woven clutches, and other Great finds while sampling the traditional orekitkó (Greek hors-d’œuvre).

Until the official pop-up shop, you can shop the latest collection at http://www.shopmodernlusso.com. Photography by British Neko

A day in M-day, a German brand

One of the most beautiful things about social media is connection. Connection with family, and friends that I’ve met throughout my travels, and exposure to different cultures, fashions and ways of life across the globe. With my daily visits to TikTok, I am getting to know incredible designers and stylists. One, in particular, is M-Day , a German brand with edgy classic styles. As soon as I saw this, pink striped long cardigan (pink is my favourite colour) I had to have it. Naturally, I made the international purchase and added it to my wardrobe…Vielen Danke. I will be returning for more pieces. Check out their website for some very cute and must-have items.

Beyond the Sample Size: Clothing for women with curves.

Growing up in the 90’s the standard of beauty was thin and thinner a look made famous by Kate Moss. Her body type was a blank canvas which was ideal for designers and runways to create their desired look. Though we had other beauties like Cindy Crawfrord, Naomi Campbell and of course Tyra Banks that could be considered curvy, many of their magazine covers were airbrushed portraying unattainable looks for models and the everyday woman. Retail fashion of the ’90s was experiencing much of the same. Popular fashions like Gap, Tommy Hilfiger, and many more had many options for standard sizing but limiting for plus size options or none at all.

Until recently, a standard size run in stores included a size 0-10, sometimes a 12 which really excluded the curvy market. Extended sizes were sold only online and for some retailers, this is still the case. The term “plus size” is an inclusive yet exclusionary term because not all curvy bodies are created equal. Case in point, women with a curvy derriere wearing a size 10-18 pant could wear a size small/medium top. Then there is a body type like mine, I’m bustier on top usually wearing a 18-20/XXL top but I struggle with pants and jeans at a retailers like Lane Bryant and Torrid.

Lane Bryant made its debut in 1904 with designs for curvy women leading to the first retail store in New York and It paved the way for the current curvy brands. I appreciate the brand but in my opinion, Lane Bryant over the years has become stuck in their plus-sized looks except for the collaboration with Beauticurve. It was fresh, stylish, and well fitting. Torrid, the polar opposite of Lane Bryant offers every trend in curvy yet still missing key elements for curvy fashionistas.

As fashion continues to embrace natural beauty and bodies, I want to share with you some of my favourite places to shop for curvy fashions:

J.Crew: I love this brand! Most of you know that I worked for the brand for 10 years and I saw the company go through many design changes but I was so excited when the iconic brand announced that it will be more size-inclusive offering sizes 00-24.

Eloquii has captured the essence of fashion (where I feel other brands have missed the mark). The brand is romantic, sexy, professional, and fashion-forward while being classic and true to size. I appreciate this brand and I’ve added many pieces; I find the brand to be a bit expensive but worth the investment.

Hologen at Norstrom: The brand is perfectly classic and essential pieces for every wardrobe. Their blouses, tanks, and v-necks hit the perfect length without being too revealing especially if you’re busty.

SHEIN: If you know, then you know. The brand offers very bold, trendy, and fashion-forward pieces. The curvy portion of the brand provides endless options at insanely low prices. I do recommend reading the reviews before purchase and Don’t wait too long, pieces sell out quickly.

I occasionally shop at Ann Taylor and Loft but I don’t own many pieces because the brand’s sizing can be inconsistent from season to season and year to year. Also, the news that Loft will be eliminating their plus collection and only carrying up to an 18 is upsetting eliminating a popular option for many.

Curvy fashions continue to grow and many designers have expanded their collections to include plus sizes and offer more variety to all beautiful bodies.

Experience Modern Lusso: Greek Culture and Style

The pandemic has changed many aspects of life including my shopping habits. I still love my favourite brands but I’ve focused my attention to smaller boutiques that really focus on quality and lifestyle. One in particular is Modern Lusso, a European brand that focuses on Greek life, culture and style, based in Annapolis, MD.

Modern Lusso was developed by Niko Kokkinos, who spends his summers in Greece and wanted to bring his love for his country and culture to fashion conscience individuals in the US. You can shop the latest Grecian inspired products on the redesigned website: www.shopmodernlusso.com.

I recently met up with Niko to chat about the progress and future of the brand. Last time we spoke, we were nine months into the pandemic and the brand’s production was at a temporary standstill. Though we’re still in the pandemic restrictions have been lifted and Modern Lusso is able to bring Greek fashion, culture and style to the American market again. The most recent collaboration is with Amigis Greek Olive Oil and I must tell you, it is a smooth, rich and full flavored olive oil. I bought a bottle for my dad, who is Greek and an olive oil connoisseur, he was very impressed with the selection of olive oil.

Calypso hoops

One of a kind jewelry statement pieces really complete any look and to find such unique pieces shop Stories2Wear. Each piece is inspired and hand-etched with ancient Greek patterns. Just look at the the delicate details on these earrings. And what makes them the perfect accessory (for me) they’re pink! The Calypso etched hoops are the perfect statement piece to complete your summer look.

Modern Lusso plans to collaborate with more Greek brands while expanding the in-house brand that is Modern Lusso. Niko has a vision of more in-house designs, expansion into swim wear, Luxury Travel while embracing the European way of life…quality over quantity. The e-commerce boutique has been able to bring a sample of Greece to the states with success. His immediate future plans include pop-up shops in Annapolis and the Washington DC area, giving shoppers immediate access to Grecian style. No matter the look you’re striving for, there is a unique piece that will fit your personal style. Now go and experience the culture and life style that is Modern Lusso.

COVID: 1 year later

We’ve officially been in a worldwide pandemic for one year; which has felt like many lifetimes filled with panic, uncertainty, deaths, fear, hope, and faith. The past year has highlighted who is essential and who really makes our world function. We’ve seen the beauty in the human race and unfortunately the ugliness that exists too. We’ve experienced COVID at the same time but a little differently or as the expression on social media has been “we’re in the same storm but in different boats” which has really opened our eyes to so many injustices that exist in so many systems that make up society.

As we continue to fight and heal during COVID, I want to reflect on what I’ve learned throughout this pandemic.

The Selfish and The Selfless: Two polar opposites but very strong characteristics that were exhibited at the beginning of the Pandemic. You had groups of people hoarding supplies and price gouging, then you had businesses and strangers giving what they could to help those without. It comes down to the fact that many people have never had to sacrifice or care for something bigger than themselves and it shows.

System Reboot: There is no doubt that this pandemic has highlighted the many cracks within the many systems that make up society. Many businesses have reported that some employees have been more productive working from home. Some people have had the opportunity to create their own businesses, changed careers, or even had to make some very difficult decisions. For me, I took the time to reflect, obtain my certification in ophthalmology, work on passion projects, and take the time to recharge and reflect

Masks: So many things changed a year ago but there are a few things that have been implemented that I now appreciate: Masks, some find it annoying but I’ve learned to appreciate them, especially in my line of work; the containment of hot breath has been a blessing. They have been the new “must-have item” for entrance (almost) everywhere. The masks have even reduced the number of colds and influenza cases this year. We are now walking billboards of many messages, you choose what you want to convey to the world with your mask. Now, I’m not saying keep it long-term, I’m just saying that I appreciate its function so much more.

TikTok: If you know then you know. Personally, I find the app to be inspirational, educational, healing, and creative. It has been a nice distraction from the constant negativity that is COVID. The laughs, the jokes, the dance challenges, and the debate of the feta pasta- I’m a fan. The app is a platform for so many to be their authentic selves which have encouraged so many others to do the same. Not to mention the number of influencers that have launched their brands on this app is inspiring.

Social Distancing: If I can see the fine details on your mask, you’re too close! Now, I know it’s not possible in all situations like dentists and eye clinics, they have to be up close and personal to do their jobs. However, I like not having to “squeeze” by and having to yell “excuse me” twenty times before someone moves out of your path. Personal space is important and needs to be respected.

There is no doubt that COVID has caused a lot of destruction and will continue to challenge all of us for many years to come but I think it is important that we continue to learn from this as a world, commit to understanding each other, and doing better in all aspects of life.