The must have hair accessory is the Top Knot Headband. My obsession started last year when the Maryland summers and humidity forced me into wearing my natural curls. I usually straighten my hair during the cooler temperatures but the humidity transforms my hair to various levels of frizz. These headbands have me embracing and loving my natural curls furthermore I am creating the ever-growing collection of top knots headbands

Here are my 10 reasons you should invest in the classic hair accessory:

1. They’re practical: they keep your hair out of your face.

2. Chic and elegant, look at the elegant Tamera Mowry in a white pearl studded top knot headband.

3. Elevate any look.

4. Incorporate some bling to your look, especially if you have to wear a uniform.

5. Accessorize with bright colours and classic prints

6. Zoom Meeting ready: You look ready, even if you don’t feel ready.

7. Top Knots create a different approach to the statement piece

8. Embrace your natural curls

9. Comfort; top knots are usually padded and won’t give you headache behind the ears

10. Lastly, they’re simply fabulous.

Check out a few of my favourites:

The Black  Live Matter movement is protesting more than police brutality; it is shining a spotlight on the racial injustices that exist in everyday life. Though it is beautiful to see so many spectacular people coming together to protest, I can’t help but think about the many times I’ve faced discrimination in my life. People of colour are unfortunately forced to face racism at a very early age due to the ignorance of others. I am no different. At the time of the incident, I was unaware of what racism was but upon reflection, I now realize that’s what it was.

It was 1988, I think I was in the second grade and I was at a new school, again. My dad was military, so we moved around a lot. Our “get to know you” assignment was to draw a picture of your family. I was excited, I loved to colour and I had just gotten a new box of Crayola Crayons so I was prepared. I began to draw my mom and choose sepia for her skin colour. Mom had to look chic and dressed in her favourite colour, violet. Then I drew dad, I had to make sure there is enough room on the paper he is very tall, he’s 6’8″. I chose peach, it is the closet to his skin colour, because according to Crayola, he isn’t white;  he is peach with brown hair. I finish the family photo with my sister, Michelle, myself and Tilly, our Black Labrador Retriever. I colour Michelle and I burnt sienna and our dog, black. I was proud of my family picture but the teacher was concerned.

The next day my parents were called for a parent-teacher conference because the teacher didn’t believe that what I drew was my family. I must be lying and needed to see a child psychologist. My mother usually handled all things school related because my dad usually worked or was deployed but he made it to this meeting. Mom was angry and rightfully so, 7-year-old me didn’t understand at the time but I do now.  Mom and Dad show up prepared for this “conference.” The teacher is sitting across from us seeing my family drawing in the flesh and is at a loss for words.

That experience had an impact on me. The teacher questioned my work, she thought I lied about my family. It had me questioning what a family is “supposed to look like” and questioning my identity and uniqueness. I wish this was the only time I experienced something like this but unfortunately, it is not.

“I don’t see colour” is a well-intended phrase of inclusivity. However, it invalidates who we are, our culture, history, the daily struggles; it dismisses why we kneel and why we continue to protest. “I don’t see colour” fails to acknowledge there is racial injustice and diminishes the very real racially charged struggles we face. In lieu of that, colour is what makes the world so amazingly beautiful and unique: from the flowers, the sky, and the birds of the air, the beauty of colour doesn’t stop there. Human beings are an amazing spectrum of colour, beautiful shades of ebony, almonds, brown, tan, ivory, and peach.  What do you see when you open a new box of Crayola Crayons…you see a beautiful array of colours to help to draw and create the beauty that does exist. When Crayola announced “the colors of the world” crayon collection, I was excited to see a more accurate representation of people of the world.  Colour exists and we can acknowledge that but we need to make judgments based on the actions and the character of a person, not their colour.

Fashion is always influenced by different elements and this pandemic isn’t any different. Within weeks of COVID-19 spreading, masks became the necessary and fashionable accessory. Masks are required at grocery stores, doctor’s appointments and restaurants (yes, even if you’re picking up food). Post pandemic, fashion and the shopping experience will look very different.

Face Masks are already the must have accessary and are becoming more fashion forward. There are many sewers who started making masks due to the shortage of them for individuals and healthcare workers. Many talket have turned entrepreneurs selling a variety of masks on sites like Zazzle. Being the girl who loves her glitz and glamour, I purchased a sequin mask with a silk lining from Kate Stoltz. Brands like Old Navy, sell adult 5 packs of masks for $12.50. J.crew, 3 pack for $18 with some cute and classic  prints. Along with a host of retailers who are selling maks in the fight of COVID-19. Within the immediate feature, we will continue to see masks as a “must have”(literary)  accessary and I think we’ll see “free mask with purchase” deals, monthly mask subscription plans and  dare I say it…twin sets masks and garment.  If companies haven’t started yet, well see private and public companies creating masks with company logos.

Fitting rooms: Trying on clothes is second nature when shopping but this will dramatically change. Retailers will have to approach fitting room with delicately. Personally, I think the space will be limited to 2-3 people at a time due to the already limited space. We’ve learned that the virus lives on various surfaces for different amounts of time from hours to days. Respiratory droplets can live on fabrics as well but tend to dry faster and inactive the virus; jut think about the number of time you’ve spilled water and it dried within minutes. However, with this fabric knowledge, I believe that the clothing that could be tried on will be limited. Tried on Items may be steamed after every “try on” and taken out of rotation for 24-48 hours. And fitting rooms themselves would have be sanitized after each use (again, my opinion). There is also the possibility the fitting room may be off limits altogether.

Online Shopping: Due to retail stores being closed for 3 months, retail therapy could only be completed online. E-Commerce will continue to be the primary revenue for retailers as companies assess their losses and profits. However, online shopping will have additional benefits for a while during the pandemic. You will see deep discounts on products to make way for (already ordered) new collections, the “free shipping” threshold may be lowered and we as consumers will be more willing to write products reviews because we will be more dependent on them because product and sizes will be very limited in brick and mortar stores.

Trends and Style:  The fashion world itself  will look very different.  Fashion shows are at an indefinite halt. Trends are at a stand-still and personal style will incorporate more basic and transitional pieces.  Pencil skirts, suits and ties might take a back seat at the office and Zoom meeting for a while. Athleisure will become more common place as business start to reopen their doors. With the high spread of of the virus, consumers will opt for washer friendly fabrics, like cotton, merino wool and washable silk.  Consigning our recently cleaned out our closets will become more popular; I’ve consigned my unused pieces for many years for a little extra cash. Online consignment stores like Thredup are about to be the popular kid in the realm of fashion.

As crazy and uncertain things may be, I want to leave you with

 

 

J.Crew has always been one of my favourite stores; I worked for the company for 10 years; first as a sale associate then later as a personal stylist…and I loved it. It is where I learned about style, fabrics, textile mills and mixing prints. I styled so many incredible clients for job interviews, engagement photos and events. J.Crew played an import part in college, my first teaching job and of course the launch of my blog. My time with company also introduced me to amazing people along the way who are still in my life. So when J.crew announced their bankruptcy, it hurt but it didn’t come as a surprise. In retrospect, the following are the missteps that led to their recent decision:

“It” Brand:J. Crew was a luxury brand spear headed by the darling duo of Mickey Drexler and Jenna Lyons when I joined the company in 2007. They were headed toward the big time, Michelle Obama was the unofficial brand ambassador. J.Crew was known for their rich wools, bold prints and colours in very classic silhouettes. The School Boy blazer, No.2 pencil skirt and of course the Jackie Cardigan were must have staples. The prints and colours were so distinctive to the brand that you instantly knew a J.crew piece when you spotted it. Blazers were considered essential and investment pieces and yes, I have a nice collection of blazers.. The Lady Day Coat,, was on the wish list for many and of course there was a “must have” item in every collection. The brand made history when Michelle Obama wore J.crew on the Tonight Show, after her appearance on the show, those sweaters sold quickly and a new fan base was born. I felt at that time J.crew became more than a brand it was becoming a lifestyle.

Public to Private. In 2010, J.Crew takes the company private. I was graduating college at the time but I do remember mixed emotions among our staff. But in retrospect, the company going private may have been the very beginning of the decline. I’m not a business guru but I’ve learned when there are many people to answer to in a public company, decisions are made differently, that is my opinion. The brand was Featured in New York Fashion Week and continued to release amazing collection each season and we were there to mark our look books for our next purchase that would be added to our already fabulous J.Crew wardrobe.

J.Crew Online: This was a big deal! Being able to bring J.crew to a bigger market was incredible but it also meant that we did away with our classic “red” phone that we used for orders. The launch of Crew online was great but there were some disadvantages: Sizes 12 and 14 were sold only online, some pieces were “online exclusives” and there was so much confusion on who got credit for the sale. Jcrew brick and morter or Jcrew e-commerce. And personally, I didn’t like having to order my size on line or wait until a customer returned my size. Eventually, J.crew worked out their issues with online but i always felt they were a little late to the game.

The Changing Face of J.Crew: Jenna Lyons became the face and voice of J.crew. She took fashion to a whole other level with dressing in the “highs and lows” of fashion; sequins and a stripe tee became the signature look. Her philosophy on fashion was fun, innovative and perfect for the office and a night on the town of NYC but it didn’t translate well to the core customer of J.Crew. I noticed a 20 percent price point increase while the quality was declining. The classic must haves were very limited and replaced with high cookie cutter fast fashion J.Crew was becoming unrecognizable. I still loved the brand but it was going through an identity crisis and it was reflected in sales. Declining sales resulted in elimination and redistribution of positions, the closures of stores and a fractured relationship between the brand and the consumer.

Under various CEOs leadership and collection designers, I see J.crew trying very hard to rebrand themselves by being more inclusive with sizes, dropping their price point, recreating the classics along with collaborations with brands like Universal Standard, Cesta Collective and New Balance. I’ve watched J.Crew go from the booming “it” brand of retail to filing bankruptcy and even though we are in the thick of a pandemic, I still have hope of a comeback for this brand. However, this will take time to restructure, understanding what made J.crew an “it”brand and restoring that relationship with the J.crew aficiandos. I was fan and continue to be, J.Crew, I’m cheering for you!

There is no doubt that COVID 19 has reeked havoc on our very way of life and we are experiencing trauma of various degrees. However, there are 5 things that style and fashion has taught me throughout our time in quarantine

Dress with Intentions. Many get dressed for work or special occasions but with current events many have opted for sweats and yoga pants because there isn’t a obvious intention of work, weddings or graduation parties. Getting dressed during the pandemic can help with a positive mindset, help set personal goals and accomplish personal goals. Being dressed means you’ll be Zoom meeting ready…oh and don’t for get your trousers. Choosing to get dress will give you an opportunity to play with your style and put those fabulous pieces into rotation. So whether you getting the mail or making a trip the grocery store dressed with intention.

If you look good, you feel good: This has always been my personal style motto. However, it has been really tested during this quarantine. Emotions are running high and there are so many unknowns. However we can choose how we’re going to approach our days and I’m choosing to do so with style

Style is in the details: Accessories can defiantly make the outfit! The needed and (sometimes) required accessory of the season is the face mask. Though they can be uncomfortable, it has been a valuable in curbing the

virus. This new accessory is being produced in so many cute prints and by so many small businesses and even some big names in fashion. Do your part stay safe and support.

 

Back to basics: Just like every wardrobe is built on the foundation of classic pieces so is life. Our time in quarantine has given so many people the opportunity to focus on the basics. Spending time with God,  our families, organizing and self improvement.

Communicate your style: You may not realize it but your style does communicate some aspects of your personality. However, it may change depending on the event, profession or activity. There is a lot of communication going on during COVID-19 as well, what are you trying to say with y

Stay in style and safe. Be considerate of others and wear your mask when in public…. oh and wash your hands.

 

 

We’re in day 40-something of quarantine, somewhere between Sunday and Saturday and based on the rain outside, it must be April maybe May. We’re all experiencing this storm known as COVID-19 together. Though our experiences with this virus will differ, there is no doubt that this pandemic has been very taxing on our mental health. I put my faith in God, so when the lay-off came… and it did, I didn’t make decisions in fear. I was able to qualify for unemployment and all of my needs are being met. However, it is still stressful because we are still waiting and watching. We’re watching healthcare workers mourn patients lost to this virus; we’re waiting for stimulus checks. We waiting for numbers of recovery and loss along with updates from our local and federal governments. We are waiting for vaccines and treatment plans from doctors and researchers. This wait is filled with erratic, sleep patterns, Netflix binges, new recipes, Zoom meetings, e-learning and of course prayer.

The stresses are different but real; I have family who are essential workers and are fighting this enemy in the Emergency room. Parents are having to re-learn or in some cases learn news subjects so they can teach their kids now students. Families are stressed and feel betrayed by their government because they haven’t received a promised stimulus check because a US citizen married a non-citizen. Individuals are stressed about rent payments, food and toilet paper (I still don’t understand this one) and PPE, the once reserved abbreviations for medical personal, now used in daily conversation and in every COVID19 update. PPE will soon have it’s own entry into Merriam Webster.

But with all of the stresses, there are some silver linings in this pandemic. Personally, I believe that this huge disruption is to get our attention and refocus our energies, which could help with our healing and mental health. Prior to the corona virus, there were individuals who were contemplating a career change; (working 50+ hours a week and unhappy) families were colour coded schedules filled with “good mornings, we’ve gotta go and I love you’s” as we brushed past each other to tackle the next task. People feeling unfulfilled and needing more…needing God but allowed fear, work, sports and excuses to get in the way of making scary but necessary changes. This virus has forced us to face some pre-COVID 19 societal and personal issues but post-COVID 19… there will be so many unanswered questions and issues that will need to be addressed, and we have to be aware and prepared for that. Meaning, we will need therapy, healthy ways of coping with this trauma. We will need a support system from the individual all they way to a global level and of course we will need God.

Now, I know this a bit of a detour for Style by Syraluna but it is what I needed to address.

Stay Safe and lots of Love.

“New Normal” is a phrase that has been repeated  in the media and I’m here to tell you…. There is nothing normal about  COVID 19!  Unemployment is in the millions, schools and businesses are closed, lines for food pantries are miles long, masks are required for a trip to the grocery store and we’ve had to re-teach hand washing…our lives have been completely flipped upside down.

Prior to quarantine,  life was filled with our normal routines.  Students were learning and laughing with their friends in a school building. We were going to work with dreams of “is it the weekend yet.” Our calendars were filled with the day to day appointments and pending plans for Easter, spring and summer breaks. Deposits were already submitted for weddings, graduations, vacations or family reunions. Then the days slowly shifted to the country being on a “stay at home” order. Sports are cancelled, churches and business are closed; students having to finish the academic year online.  Graduations, weddings and all future plans up in the air indefinitely. We are at war with COVID-19 and our only weapons of defense  “social distancing” and washing our hands!

With the uncertainties of COVID-19, our current reality looks like this:

The task of going to the grocery store now requires strategic planning of maintaining  6ft apart, mandatory face masks, Clorox wipes and a mindset that you’re entering a biohazardous zone only to find that the essentials are limited or already sold out.

The concept of working from home dressed in  yoga pants, sweats or in some cases no pants at all was once the ideal work space. The “ideal” now has turned into Zoom meetings with a continuous circus running in the back ground…  dogs barking , cats scaling what ever they can, that one co-worker that has no clue of what’s going on and let’s not forget that one family member who “forgot” that you are in a meeting and walks by doing or saying something questionable i.e someone walking around in underwear.

Parents are now teachers and slapped with the harsh reality that teaching is hard. So parents what ever stress you’re feeling about teaching, multiply that by thirty.  Oh and you’ve realized that those emails about your child’s behavior wasn’t exaggerated. P.S. teachers are not the problem. School systems face the obstacles of finishing the school year online which and left unanswered questions about earned credits, graduations, and the online platform itself.

COVID 19 has really pulled back the societal blind fold and truly exposed the injustices that we’ve known all along, society can’t run without our true heroes…our doctors, nurses, grocery and restaurant workers, truck and delivery drivers and of course our sanitation engineers who are risking their health to provide for others.

This virus has pushed governments into uncharted territory by having to make minute to minute changes to life as new data is being reported. They’re having to write executive orders in the name of safety. People around the world are now left with so many unanswered questions that seemed like they could only come from a sci-fi movie script.

As ugly as this virus is, it has brought out the beauty in a lot of people. Doctors and nurses are coming out of retirement to help; neighbors taking care of each other, drive by birthday celebrations.  Restaurant owners and chefs are making sure that the hospital staff  and other individuals who now find themselves in need are fed.

Celebrities are doing live book readings and concerts to provide a temporary escape of this madness known as COVID-19. People are turning back to  God, families are spending to together and “yes” we are still watching Netflix.

I accept the temporary adjustments that are needed to survive, but I will not accept this “new normal”

 

 

 

 

 

From Facebook to Fox News, we’re being inundated with information about COVID-19  and as we prepare to forage on in uncharted territory, I want to give you a message of encouragement during this time of containment. I encourage you not to panic but to refocus your energy…because stress can do a number on the body …and no doubt this is a very stressful situation.  Maintain true style and grace with a few tips…

• Stay Healthy! Junk food is so tempting but focus on eating  vitamin rich foods especially vitamin C and D, which helps build immunity. Exercise, oxygen rich blood fuels the body. Drink plenty of water and rest. Oh, as you’ve heard…wash your hands!
• Education. If you have children that will be home from school, I encourage you to teach them things that you as a parent want your children to know. Focus on life skills such as money management, organization, time management, cooking, basic car maintence. Take this time to really talk to your children, get to know them and what’s important in their lives.
  • Study: If you’ve been preparing for exams take this extra time to study and focus. Learn that material forwards and backwards.
• Read! That book or magazine that has been sitting on your night stand for the past couple of months, now’s the time to read it.  There are so many adventures to be had in the pages of books.
• Culinary Skills: Improve your cooking skills and  get in the kitchen and start experimenting with recipes or finally try that one dish you’ve been want to cook. Try to replicate your favourite dish from your favourite restaurant.
• Be Creative.Allow those creative juices to flow. You have an idea for a blog, book, fashion design that has been swirling around in your head..now is the time to start breathing life into those ideas.
• Prayer:Take this time to reconnect with God and  focus on what He wants you to learn through all of this and improve  your connection with Him through prayer. As crazy as everything looks; He is still in control.

The most stylish thing that we can do during all of this is be mindful, respectful and helpful to others. This too shall pass.

Much Love,