Pretties in Pink

Colour can have a profound affect on our moods and even give us a peek into our individual personalities and elevate our looks. My signature colour is pink and of course my favourite things in life are you guessed it ….pink. I love peonies, pink flamingos, pink accessories and of course pink outfits.

Pink can represent hope, empowerment, romance and femininity. It also is such a beautiful colour on women, however, I have met some women who feel like that pink is not a good colour for them and I’m writing this post to prove those women wrong. I believe any woman can wear pink and look incredible! As many beautiful women there are in this world, there are as many shades of pink. Pink can give an instant glow to your complexion and an aura of confidence as seen on the following beautiful women who gave me permission to present them in this pretty palatte of pinks!

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Samantha

Just look at my good friend Jaimie who has a gorgeous glow and is a complete head tuner in her hot pink dress.

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Jillian

I can’t mention pinks and not talk about how beautiful Jillian is dressed in monochromatic tones of blush pinks.

Let’s continue with the fabulous looks of Narisa

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Narisa

in her Fuchsia jumpsuit and how it just gives her an instant glow. Shall we proceed with my love of pink? Just look at how candescent my sister Michelle looks in neon coral and she is just beaming with confidence.

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Michelle

I love that pink on women looks soft and delicate yet powerful and confidant. Here are some more examples of what I mean. Look at Samantha, we go way back, 10 plus years: she looks strong and magnificent in mauve while taking on the hardest role there is… being a mom.

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Samantha
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Julie

I can’t talk about pretty in pinks and not mention my Whole 30 partner Julie who looks fantastic in in flamingo pink. So we see how amazing my favourite colour is?! But how awesome is pink on a red head just look at Brooke looking simply sublime in her salmon pink. Who ever said red heads can’t wear pink lied!

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We continue with Jessica and fellow UMD alumnus looking fetching in fairy tale pink. Now this post wouldn’t be complete without an appearance from yours truly looking smashing in shocking pink.

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Stacie aka Syraluna
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Brooke

So raven haired, red, blonde or brunette, from the palest ivory skin to the richest decadent chocolate, our range in colours are truly accented by the various hues of pink. So step outside your black and white world and Think Pink!

Walk into 2020 with Style

Happy New Year and welcome to the 20’s of another decade. You can feel the excitement and energy of a new year,the exit of the past and the entrance of the future. Some people will set goals and will be successful then there are those individuals who make resolutions because it is the expected thing to say.

Personal growth is one of the most stylish things you can do with a determined mind set, goals and celebrations of the baby steps you’ll be amazed at you can and will accomplish. My first post of 2020 is not a list of “how to..” accomplish your goals; I want to send you encouragement. So celebrate all the victories and track your progress; if you have a setback, study it and see what you can do different. Surround yourself with positive people and who have conquered what you’re wanting to accomplish. Last but not least walk with purpose and style.

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Walking into 2020 with style in Just Fab Shoes

You’ve got this and happy New Year

Year in review: My favourites of 2019

Another year is coming to a close and another decade (wow, when did that happen!) filled with personal growth, adventures, opportunity and of course style!

Personal Growth in the form of classes, books and dynamic conversation, in my opinion, is the most stylish thing one can do. And I must admit I’ve added  a lot of style to my life throughout 2019 that has given me greater prespective on my journey of life

Speaking of style, my must have accessory of 2019 has been the “top knot ” headband. I became obsessed when me and my hair lost our battle with the summer humidity and I was looking for ways to make my natural curls have that extra pop…then I acquired the “top knot” headband and now it my necessary accessory in array of colours and of course my signature pink.

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Top knot head bands

My collection includes headbands from Target (pronounced tar-jay in my French accent), J.Crew, Ann Taylor and now Francesca’s. I love that the “top knot” adds that je ne sais quoi to my looks. I can’t talk about trends without talking about my favourite colour…pink and my additions to the wardrobe.

My J.Crew satin flats and my Banana Republic pink coat have been my must haves of this year which I will carry into the next. Another trend that I’ve embraced in 2019 in leather (faux) pants and skirts, I just love  how it brings an edge to my ensembles.20191208_1044547526610991729721120.jpg

I must confess…the idea of shopping for make-up overwhelms me. That is why I’m so happy that my friend introduced me to

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My First IPSY bag

Ipsy, where they send me beauty samples from the classic and popular brands of makeup. I get to try so many beauty products without the stress of endless options and cost.

Live music has always been one of my favourite experiences. This year I heard the sounds of  Boyz II Men, Maurette Brown Clark and mi cantante favorito Alejandro Sanz. Music has a way of transporting you to those great memories of your past and it can be very therapeutic. Laughter is good for the soul received the remedies with the comedic styles of Anjelah Johnson, Trevor Noah and Gary Owen

2019 has been filled with some so much growth, many blessing, opportunities. I’m looking forward to what 2020 has instore.

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2019

 

 

GIVE: A genuine gift giving guide

It is officially the holiday season, stores are having their black Friday deals and Cyber Monday will bring even more deals.  And yes, I love a good deal as much as the next person but before you click “confirm” for 60% off. Take a moment to consider the gift you will give. Use the following guide to pick a gift that is special and not just a last minute “grab”.

Genuine: I believe that a gift should be genuine. What I mean by this is the gift you give should be unique like the person that is receiving it.genine.jpg For this to happen you need to know the person; learn their favourites: hobbies, foods, and what they’re passionate about. Watching some one receive a gift that is a true reflection of them brings me pure joy.

Intentional :  Be intentional about your gift. If you’re unsure, do some investigation. Learn their likes, what they’ve been looking at online. Do they like to travel? Maybe plan a trip instead of more “stuff.” intentionalfinal7767738424655236286.jpgIf you’re really in doubt, just ask! I, personally, am not for surprises because I’m usually left disappointed and I have a gift that I can’t use. Being intentional about a gift could focus on what the recipient needs instead of what “you” want them to have. Take this holiday season to listen and be intentional.

Volunteer:  As much I want to believe the holidays are filled with magical Hallmark moments, the reality is this time of year  is a very difficult volunteer-sign-landscape4615254507360009525.pngtime for so many people for various reasons.  Volunteering your time and focusing on the needs of others can really put life into perspective.

 

Experience: Some of the best gifts I’ve been given is the gift of Experiences. I remember when my dad received orders from California to Ohio and we made a surprised  stop to Disneyland. It was so exciting unexpected and fun; my sister and I couldn’t stop talking about it for years. Fulfilling a promise of a trip 800px_colourbox95014377017508462477204170.jpg France with my best friend and sister was an amazing experience. Everyday in the streets of Paris was a day for creating memories. Gifting experiences will always mean so much more than a pile of more stuff. It will bring amazing people in your life and experiences will teach so much more about life.

This Holiday really GIVE.

Merry Christmas and a Happy New!

 

 

 

Thankful for Love

Daily I express my gratitude but this Thanksgiving I’m truly thankful for love. I’m referring to the love that is patience as we find our own way through our many adventures in this thing called life. The type of love that will tell you about yourself when you’re acting out of character yet encourage you to do better through love. A love that will pray you through a difficult situation. I’m thankful for that love that will celebrate you in your greatest victories. I am thankful for a love that forgives but doesn’t say ” I told you so”

To have such a love, I’m so thankful.

Happy Thanksgiving with LOVE.

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Let the Festivities Begin!

They Holiday Season is officially upon us once again, which means, family dinners and get togethers, work holiday parties and the festivities in between. All which require the appropriate festive attire. Many will opt for the classic reds, greens or jewel tones for the for the holidays all of which are appropriate and easy to find especially for the last minute shoppers. Then there are those who need or want to put a little more flair into their style this season here are a few options:

Tartan Plaids

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Ann Taylor Tartan Plaid

 

I love, love tartan print plaid! As soon as I see it I sense the holidays are on the way and I instantly start to pull all of my prints out so I can start the festivities. You can pick something simple as a headband or a dress but however much tartan you decide to don, just

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J.Crew Stewart Plaid

know that it will look fabulous in photos and instantly ready for the festivities. My particular favourite tartan pieces this season are the turban  head bands from Ann Taylor and J.Crew.

 

Sparkles

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J.crew Sequins

Yes, Sparkle is a colour and I love it! For mi Sparkle is the ultimate celebration attire. The secret to sparkles is the fit. Do size up, no matter if it is a shoe or a dress. The very pattern of full sequin garments are designed to be more fitted and can be limited with movement. Plan to layer your sequin garment, if it doesn’t come lined. It can be irritating to the skin if you don’t line your sequined pieces. Limit the number of  sequined items you pair with your ensemble, too much sequins can be blinding.

Winter White

Winter white looks are so elegant especially with embellishments of pearls or feathers. With whites you need to size up as well.

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J.Crew winter white slit sweater

Different brands, fits and fabrics all fit differently, invest your time and your money in choosing your winter white carefully so your looks is festive, classic and chic.

Whatever festive look you choose, make sure you feel comfortable, you have fun and truly remember what the holidays are about…LOVE.

Handle your health like a Boss: Follow up

Now that you’ve decide to get real with your health and take control, you and your PCP have come up with a plan which isn’t just your doctor writing a prescription. Your plan will be unique to you and if you’re serious about making changes, it will include you doing some own research as well , tracking your progress and/or reactions to particular treatments.

Personally, I wanted my treatment plan to include as many natural remedies as possible but knew I would have to include medications as well. Once we established our plan, I started tracking my progress. Initially, I had adverse reactions with the first 2 medications that was prescribed to me and It took 3 follow up appointments to tweak the plan and find a regime that we were both happy with. I also have been dealing with anemia. I mentioned this in my previous post and I’m here to tell you all… anemia isn’t to be taken lightly. I felt extreme exhaustion, even if I slept 10 hours, I still felt tired. Then there were times I felt like I could never catch my breath. My PCP really pushed for an Iron infusion, me not so much. The main reason…I don’t like needles. I started doing research on what were natural remedies for Anemia and I even sought out the opinion of a hematologist. He agreed that I was anemic but not severe enough for an iron infusion and he encourgaed me to go about treating my anemia naturally along with a liquid iron that I discovered Feroglobin (which you will not find in any US pharmacy but you can get it on Amazon) I’m happy to report after a month of treatment my iron levels are headed in the right direction and my feeling of extreme exhaustion is improving and I finally feel like I can catch my breath. Initially my PCP pushed for iron pills, which I could not handle at all, I felt like I was kicked in the stomach. However, she really listened to my concerns and was willing to work with me as I researched more natural alternativities.

Tha follow up will check to see if the medications or the plan you and your PCP created is working or not, to check any progress that you’ve made and establish long term goals.

You are in charge of your health!

Handel your health like a Boss: Be your own advocate.

You can’t watch live television without being bombarded with commercials for medication where the adverse affects are worse than the actual illness. We’ve become a society where we reach for a pill for every aliment of headaches to complete exhaustion where we masque only the symptoms and not getting to the root of our real health problem. Unfortunately, we’ve become a society of quick fixes with harsh long term affects. We can’t run to our doctors to slap a band-aid on our heath issues, we need to be acutely aware of our bodies and prepare a plan with You and your healthcare provider

To get the most out of your doctor’s visit YOU must be your own health care advocate! We as individuals need to have an honest conversation with our Primary Care Providers (PCP) especially women. To get the most out of your visits I suggest the following (and yes this is what I did and it has been very eye opening):

Listen to your body: Our bodies will send us signals when it is not operating correctly with headaches, swelling, different degrees of pain, interruptions of natural cycles or extreme exhaustion is our bodies sounding off “something is not right!”. Headaches for example can cause of dehydration, hypertension or a tumor; extreme exhaustion could be a sign of anemia or other aliments. What ever your alarm is screaming, we need to listen our vehicles of life. Unfortunately, many of us will ignore these signals until we can’t anymore and this is usually when some damage has been done. Pay attention to you body, list and monitor your symptoms for a period of time …. if you feel something is “off” then trust your instinct and talk to your PCP. And if you feel like your doctor isn’t listening to you, you look until you find a doctor that does.

Food is Fuel: God has provided everything we need to make sure that we receive all of the vitamins and minerals needed to maintain our temples. Humans have also created some “fuel” that they find essential for our bodies as well. However, not all Fuel is created equal. Just like the wrong fuel in your car can stall your engine so can the wrong foods slow down our bodies. If you take the time to research the essential vitamins we need, you will find that many fruits and vegetable already have what we need. Companies have “added” to what is considered nutritional foods with some good and bad supplements. A good over the counter supplement can aid in the absorption of vitamins and minerals, especially if you’re extremely deficient. However there are foods and drinks that can interfere with the interfere with the absorption of essential elements
Such as milk and coffee. Milk doesn’t “do a body good”; for me personally it causes inflammation and for my sister it causes cold like symptoms. It also also leaches calcium from your bones leading to bone diseases like osteoporosis. Yet, it has been sold as the body building liquid for children by dairy industry and many still believe the hype. Coffee is another culprit ( I know, I love a good cup of coffee too) but can interfere with the asportation of Iron. Sea Food has been linked to high cholesterol (it is also hereditary).

Know your numbers: Before you lay out a plan for your health, you need to know your numbers and this is where that “heart to heart” with your doctor will need to happen. A blood test is a blue print of your health and reveals your levels for your hormones (which could be a cause for some weight gain) vitamin and iron deficiencies, cholesterol, diabetes and so much more. If you know these numbers soon rather than later you can start treatments or even ,in some cases, reverse your diagnoses. Treatments could be a lifestyle change or medications, My personal opinion, opt for lifestyle change before medications (if that is an option)

Family History: In recent months, I’m learning the importance of family history. The genealogy of your family can give you a preview of what may lie ahead in regards to your health. However, this may not always be the option in cases of adoption or just well kept family secrets. Families need to know what is in the gene pool and what is being passed on to the next generation so there aren’t any surprises. DNA kits are making this a reality and we’re getting our unique genetic blue prints that are telling of so much!

Your health like a Boss: The most fashionable thing that we can do ladies (and gentlemen) is to take care of our health. Start with knowing where stand with health risks, know your numbers, eat as much natural and fresh foods as possible (pay closer attention to the labels). If possible, learn your family history. Also, if you have to take you meds…do your research of adverse affects, food and drug interactions of the medication(s) you’re taking.

If you feel good, you will have more energy to participle in this adventure called life.

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Poppin’ in Polka Dots

Polka dots first made their debut in Europe in the 1800s eventually making an introduction into American fashion in the 1920s with the help of Godeys Lady Book, a life style book of the times. Polka dots transcended through the decades with the iconic likes of Minnie Mouse, Rosie the Riveter and Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman, ultimately becoming a symbol of fun, feminine fashion.

Throughout the decades polka dots have made an appearance in many collections with extended moments of being center stage. They come in the classic black and white to array of combinations of navy and white, brown and ivory, red and white or multicolored dots. Many designers have presented their version of the timeless print in jumpsuits, blouses, pants, skirts, swim wear, accessories and of course the classic polka dot dress. Naturally I have a couple of polka dot prints but a one can always add just one more.

With different variations of the polka dot print, one of the my favourite collections this season is from Ann Taylor. The classic retailor has stayed true to it’s signature look of

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Ann Taylor Summer 2019 Collection

dress, blouses, skirts and jumpsuits in the timeless print (do try on various sizes)

Old Navy is another on of my favourite

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Old Navy Jump suit

brands that has launched stylish and inexpensive pieces in polka dots. The slip-on sneakers, dresses and jump-suits are a few of my must haves of the season. The price point at Old Navy also helps so you can get just “a few” more pieces.

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Stipe tee and dot shoes : Old navy

The Rules for wearing the classic dots are pretty non existent. I love the way dots and stripes look together! It is a way to refresh your current wardrobe. I also love bold colours paired with the polka dots which can really elevate an already classic look.

The classic dot looks amazing on all women (and men too). But there is an art to pulling off the print:

  • You wear the print, not the print wears you. Which means the print needs to be proportionate to your body. Extra large prints can make you look small and ill-proportioned. An extra small print can do the opposite and make you look bigger than you are.
  • Mix-It up: Mixing stripes and dots is a fun and inexpensive way to increase your wardrobe options. Gentlemen, stripe ties and polka dot sock is one of my combinations
  • Be Bold: Add colour to make a statement with a statement

What ever combination of the polka dots you decide to wear: be classic and true